The Allure of Cuckolding
I have a larger list of festishes than most people. I may become desperately aroused at the idea of humiliation one day and enjoy something else the next. Most of my fascinations last a week or more before I put them back on my mental shelf to be used next time I feel the calling. Some, like femdom and spanking, are used considerably more than most.
One that surprised me is the idea of being cuckolded. I say surprises me because:
1) I would never want that to happen in real life nor would I allow it. If it happened without my consent it would be over between my girlfriend or wife.
2) I have been the other man more than a few times in the past. While I was involved just for the sex, I took a perverse knowledge of "Being with another man's woman." The last woman I did this with would always talk about her boyfriend and how he never made her happy or would do stupid things. I liked knowing I could give her what he couldn't.
3) I'm not the typical type that appears in cuckold fantasies. I'm not wimpy, spineless or weak. I'm very much the opposite.
Despite all this, I like the idea of being a cuckold. Watching it happen does nothing for me, nor does assisting in any way and the racial connotations ruin it for me (politics and porn don't mix. I don't even like fan fiction). I think it's is the femdom aspect of it. A woman that is so free to do what is so taboo must be in charge, right? A man that allows it is obviously secondary in the relationship.
In a past relationship I dated a very independent woman that wanted to see me and cared for me but didn't want to be exclusive to me. While she had no problem with me seeing other women- in fact she encouraged it and we ended up swapping stories- she would not be monogamous to me or any other man. She thought the idea of monogamy to be outdated. I agreed with her and still do. In my current relationship I'm monogamous though we have both discussed bringing someone else in. I'm encouraging her to take someone else though I know it would be much harder, near impossible, for her to see me with someone else. I wouldn't want to see her with someone else for the submissive aspect, that isn't there between us, but she's very sexually adventurous and likes the idea of a threesome or more.
Cuckolding is much more common than we're aware of, that much I know. It's rare to find a woman that hasn't cuckolded a man at some point in her life. It goes against all of society's dictates, which is why I find it so surprising to see it as the new trendy fetish- there was even a long article about in GQ about a group of bulls that attend parties where they sleep with the wives of bored suburban couples.
One that surprised me is the idea of being cuckolded. I say surprises me because:
1) I would never want that to happen in real life nor would I allow it. If it happened without my consent it would be over between my girlfriend or wife.
2) I have been the other man more than a few times in the past. While I was involved just for the sex, I took a perverse knowledge of "Being with another man's woman." The last woman I did this with would always talk about her boyfriend and how he never made her happy or would do stupid things. I liked knowing I could give her what he couldn't.
3) I'm not the typical type that appears in cuckold fantasies. I'm not wimpy, spineless or weak. I'm very much the opposite.
Despite all this, I like the idea of being a cuckold. Watching it happen does nothing for me, nor does assisting in any way and the racial connotations ruin it for me (politics and porn don't mix. I don't even like fan fiction). I think it's is the femdom aspect of it. A woman that is so free to do what is so taboo must be in charge, right? A man that allows it is obviously secondary in the relationship.
In a past relationship I dated a very independent woman that wanted to see me and cared for me but didn't want to be exclusive to me. While she had no problem with me seeing other women- in fact she encouraged it and we ended up swapping stories- she would not be monogamous to me or any other man. She thought the idea of monogamy to be outdated. I agreed with her and still do. In my current relationship I'm monogamous though we have both discussed bringing someone else in. I'm encouraging her to take someone else though I know it would be much harder, near impossible, for her to see me with someone else. I wouldn't want to see her with someone else for the submissive aspect, that isn't there between us, but she's very sexually adventurous and likes the idea of a threesome or more.
Cuckolding is much more common than we're aware of, that much I know. It's rare to find a woman that hasn't cuckolded a man at some point in her life. It goes against all of society's dictates, which is why I find it so surprising to see it as the new trendy fetish- there was even a long article about in GQ about a group of bulls that attend parties where they sleep with the wives of bored suburban couples.
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