Why I Submit

I believe both men and women have their own talents though women carry all the strength and power in relationships. The balance lives and dies on a woman's whim. If a woman is happy and at peace then the relationship fluorishes, if she is dissatisfies it withers. When a man is allowed to control it more often than not it becomes a selfish, one sided affair where the man does as he pleases while the woman grows more and more distant. We've seen this in the majority of marriages; women grow upset at the obstinant nature of their husbands and the lack of affection from both parties. Men turn to more primal urges; masturbation, laziness, overeating and the woman feels isolated. Neither party has direction and both feel ostracized from their partner. When the inevitable split happens both are devastated and uncertain where it went wrong.

When a woman steps up and takes her place at the head as is her right then everything seems to come together and work. The man realizes his place and, while he may fight against it for a period, it's in our nature to eventually defer to it. It is a constant struggle with our primal natures against the loving direction of the woman. Man wants to rebel, to give in to his instincts, though he knows to submit to his better half is the best idea.

A good woman knows how to handle such a battle. She wields her power over him thoughtfully, rewarding when necessary, leading him further, teasing and denying. All have their place in a femdom relationship and the woman that knows how to use them knows how important they are.



There is a period where the man struggles. Discipline is not enjoyable. Orgasm denial is not enjoyable, nor is humiliation or any other punishment but they are necessary. A strong woman sees the pain her man is in and bares it with him. Both suffer when one fails but pain is an important tool and makes him into the man he needs to be. He wants to live for her benefit, to lives for her pleasure. Every man wants to be the ideal partner for his woman because only through her satisfaction is a man ever truly happy.